It’s all about getting a girl to fall in love with you. You have to remember that getting someone to fall in love with you isn’t necessarily going to be that simple – but it doesn’t have to be that complicated either. Just make sure you know how to approach love the right way, and you’re already putting yourself in the best possible position to get a girl to trust you with her heart.
1. Don’t wait for her to send the first text message.
Show her that you are willing to take the initiative to get along with her. Prove to her that you are not a person who can only be shy around her. Tell her frankly how you feel, and never let her doubt your intentions. Don’t let her think you’re just having some kind of emotional power struggle with her.
2. Learn to read between the lines and find out how she really feels.
Don’t expect her to read everything to you. Read between the lines. Girls like it when guys are actually able to tell how they feel or what they are thinking. Show her that you are the kind of guy who is genuinely invested in how she feels and who doesn’t “take her feelings for granted.”
3. Don’t hold back your compliments from her.
Compliment her – but don’t be a hypocrite. You don’t want to patronize her or put her on a pedestal. Just praise her, tell her you admire her, and tell her what she should be proud of.
4. Show enthusiasm and happiness for her personal accomplishments.
If you can make her feel that her happiness is also your happiness, she’ll like it. If you are ecstatic about her accomplishments and success in life, she will be very close to you.
5. Make an effort to get closer to the people she likes the most.
Make an effort to really integrate yourself into her life. Show her that you are up to the challenge of really adopting the way she lives her life; and by immersing yourself in her social circle as well.
6. Express empathy whenever she is having a hard time.
You don’t always have to solve her problems for her. You shouldn’t. If she is having a hard time, just express empathy and give her some extra emotional support to help motivate her to get through the difficulties.
7. Show her that you are willing to make compromises for her.
You must be able to convince her that you will not be selfish when dealing with her. You must prove that you are willing to establish a serious relationship with her by letting her know that you are always willing to make compromises. You must let her know that you are not just looking for yourself; you are also looking for her needs.
8. You must prove your commitment and loyalty to her.
In fact, all women only want to be with a man they can really trust when it comes to commitment and loyalty. You must prove to her that you are really into him. She won’t want to invest herself in a relationship with you if she can’t see that she is investing in him as well.
9. Be your true and authentic self.
Finally, make sure you’re not being fake with her. Always keep it real, as they say. Show her that you feel comfortable enough with her to just be your true, authentic self. That is the most effective way to get her to trust you. And in turn, you’re also giving her permission to feel comfortable enough with her to just be herself as well. And when you both feel comfortable enough to just be yourselves, that’s a level of intimacy where you can really build your relationship.
