1. True Love
At its core, true love is the willingness to give of yourself for the benefit of someone else. Like a mother does for her son, she gives everything for his benefit. A husband doesn’t want his wife to treat him like her son. But he does want to feel like she’s willing to give of herself for his benefit.
2. Good/Deep Conversation
Good/deep conversation for men means we respect you and want to hear what you have to say.
3. True Friendship
It’s about commonality, understanding one another, accepting one another, and struggling through adversity together. These are the ingredients that make up a friendship. And husbands want to connect to their wives in this way.
4. Emotional maturity
Maturity is another subjective term that depends on your age and station in life. A wife’s capacity to handle stress, pressure, fear, and things not going her way should be commensurate with social norms for your age and station. Otherwise, he’s just tolerating you.
5. Trust
Trust is not always about cheating. It’s about trusting your spouse to do what she says she’s going to do, to follow through on her word, and to be sincere and truthful. This door swings both ways. But no sustainable relationship can exist without it.
6. Loyalty
There’s a lot of competition for a woman’s loyalty. There are tangible things like her in-laws, children, work, friends, side -businesses, and volunteer organizations.
Then there’s the intangible like your past, your pain, and the power you’ve accumulated. These loyalties can make a man feel like everybody and everything is more important than him. If you want a happy husband, make sure you prioritize him.
7. Fun
The reason you probably got married was that you wanted to enjoy life with the one you love. Having fun with your spouse is an important part of being happily married. Without it, you lose touch with why you got married in the first place.
